Fedora isn’t owned by Red Hat. It is a community-driven distro which Red Hat uses as a base for RHEL.
And you aren’t a paying customer. You can use Fedora without giving a single cent, or any telemetry data, to Red Hat.
Your stance is like saying “I’m not taking this free bread roll, because people I don’t like also eat bread rolls.”
Read https://wiki.archlinux.org/title/System_maintenance before you go your first pacman -Syu
And when people tell you that you shouldn’t use aur helpers like yay to blindly install/upgrade aur packages, there’s a reason for it. Read the PKGBUILDs.